Flying with a Newborn: Expert Tips for a Smooth Journey

It’s been 3 months and our son has already been on five flights! He even was given a “first flight” certificate and a pair of Delta wings.

His first flight was at 6 weeks old and we learned a lot from that experience.

Over these past few weeks, I’ve been reminiscing about our past flights and how our travels have changed with the addition of a young child. From flying across country, a grounded flight, and connecting flights, we’ve learned a few things through each experience.

We discovered flying to be more chaotic, less relaxing, and slightly more stressful.

Like all things baby-related, however, it gets easier each time. By being organized, strategic, and prepared (as prepared as possible), we have become more efficient and our flying with a baby has become easier.

And yes, it can (and will be) scary the first time – not knowing how your baby will respond to the changing air pressures or how other passengers will react to a possible screaming infant. It will all be worth it in the end!

Preparing for the Flight

Booking the Flight: Tips for Traveling with a Newborn

• Timing Matters: When booking your flight, try to align it with your baby’s sleep schedule. For short flights, consider daytime trips, while longer flights might be better at night to help your baby sleep through the journey.

• Ticket Purchase: A pre-flight consideration is whether or not to purchase a seat for your baby. You are not required to purchase a seat for children under age 2 flyling domestically. This is called a “lap infant.” With a lap infant, you’ll be required to hold your baby the entirety of the flight.

• Fly Direct: When you fly direct, you minimize the chance of missing connecting flights and significant delays.

Is Lap Infant the right decision for me?

A lap infant can save money, however, might be less comfortable for both you and your baby. Some things to consider:

1. Lap infants are still required to have a ticket, eventhough a separate seat is not purchased. If an option is not available online to add a lap infant to your flight itinerary, this can easily be done by calling the airline.
2. Lap infants are not eligible to start accruing frequent flier miles since a seat was not purchased.
3. Usually only one lap infant is allowed per row because most airlines only have one additional oxygen mask.
4. There are some seating restrictions. With a lap infant, you’re not allowed to sit in emergency exit rows or the rows directly in front of or behind the exit rows.

Choosing the Best Seats for Flying with an Infant

• Bulkhead Seats: These seats, located at the front of each section of the plane, offer more space and may come with a bassinet when requested on long-haul flights. Booking these early can provide added comfort for both you and your baby.

• Aisle Seats: Opting for an aisle seat can make it easier to get up and walk around with your baby. It provides more space to maneuver and access the aisle if you need to run to the bathroom for diaper changes.

• Window Seats: A window seat offers a bit more privacy and fewer distractions. It can be a good choice if you want a quieter space for you and your baby.

Personally, I prefer the aisle seats or bulkhead seats unless I’m traveling with family. Sitting in an aisle seat makes it easier if you need to get up and down without having to interrupt another passenger.

At the Airport: Navigating Security and Boarding

Navigating Airport Security with a Baby

1. Arrive Early (but not too early): Everything takes longer with an infant. Allow yourself plenty of time to arrive to the airport, check-in, get organized, and navigate security. However, you don’t want to arrive way too early because killing time in the airport with an infant can be a challenge.

What are the TSA rules for baby liquids?

TSA allows you to bring baby formula, breast milk, and juice in reasonable quantities exceeding the standard 3.4 ounces limitation!

• Quantity: You can bring more than 3.4 ounces of baby formula, breast milk, and juice in your carry-on bag. There is no specific limit, but it should be a reasonable amount for the duration of the flight and the duration of your trip.
• Declaration: Inform the TSA officer at the beginning of the screening process that you are carrying formula, breast milk, or juice for your infant.
• Screening: These liquids will undergo additional screening, which might include opening the containers. You can request that the TSA officers use gloves and change their gloves if needed. You can also request that the containers not be opened – TSA must provide an alternative screening option.

2. Use a Baby Carrier: Wearing your baby in a carrier can help you navigate security more easily. Most security checkpoints will allow you to keep your baby in the carrier while going through the metal detector. You can also baby wear during the flight, but not during take off or landing.

Whatever baby carrier you choose, I would recommend one that is easy to get on and off. This is why I chose not use a baby wrap. While I love our Ergobaby Omni 360, the one downside is it’s on the bulkier side so it can’t easily be tucked away when not in use.

3. Stroller and Car Seat: If you do not check your stroller and car seat at the ticket counter, be prepared to fold your stroller and place it on the conveyor belt for screening. Car seats will need to be screened separately.

Boarding the Plane

• Pre-Boarding: Take advantage of pre-boarding for families if it’s available. This allows you to settle in before the general boarding process begins, making it easier to manage your baby and your belongings.

• Organize Your Space: Once on board, arrange your carry-on items so everything you need is within reach. Set up your baby’s area and ensure you have quick access to diapers, feeding supplies, and comfort items.

In-Flight Tips for Traveling with a Newborn

Keeping Your Baby Comfortable on the Plane

• Dress in Layers: Airplane cabins can vary in temperature, so dress your baby in layers that can be easily added or removed. Bring a soft blanket to help keep them cozy.

Handling Ear Pressure During Takeoff and Landing

• Feeding: Feeding your baby during takeoff and landing can help relieve ear pressure. The sucking motion from breastfeeding or bottle-feeding helps equalize the pressure in their ears.

• Pacifiers: If your baby uses a pacifier, have it ready for these times as well. The sucking action can also help with ear pressure.

Feeding and Sleeping

• Bottle-Feeding: From pre-measured to pre-mixed formula, we’ve tried both.
  • Formula: A formula dispenser comes in handy for pre-measuring powder. The pre-mixed formula comes in handy for those emergency screaming “I’m starving” situations.
  • Water: Flight attendants can provide hot water to help warm bottles if necessary. You can also fill up a water bottle once you go through security to use for your baby’s formula.

• Maintain Sleep Schedule: Stick to your baby’s usual sleep schedule as closely as possible. Bring familiar sleep items like a sleep sack or blanket to create a comfortable sleep environment.

Diaper Changes

• Airport bathrooms: Before boarding and when deplaning, you can change your baby in one of the restrooms that have a changing table.
• Airplane bathrooms: Many (but not all) airplane bathrooms have baby changing tables.
• Airplane tray table: This is a big no no. They are not designed to hold your baby’s weight and people also eat here!

Once you board the plane, ask the flight attendant where they recommend you change your baby. The flight attendants are usually very helpful and eager to help.

I found packing individual baggies that contained a diaper and disposable changing pad within my diaper bag made diaper changes much easier and more efficient.

Arrival and Beyond

Deplaning and Managing Luggage

• Efficiently Getting Off the Plane: As the plane descends, start organizing your belongings. Waiting for the majority of passengers to deplane can help you gather your things more easily.

• Collecting Luggage: Use bright, distinctive tags or ribbons on your bags to make them easier to spot at baggage claim. If you need help, don’t hesitate to ask airport staff.

• Use a Luggage Cart: A luggage cart can help manage multiple bags, especially if you’re traveling alone with your baby. It can make getting to your next destination smoother.

Adjusting to a New Environment

• Stick to Routine: Help your baby adjust by sticking to their regular routine as much as possible. Follow familiar feeding, napping, and bedtime schedules.

• Create a Comfortable Sleep Space: Set up a familiar sleep environment with your baby’s favorite items like a blanket or sleep sack. This will help your baby feel more at home.

• Gradual Exposure: Introduce your baby to new sights, sounds, and people gradually. Allow them time to adjust at their own pace, and provide plenty of comfort and reassurance.

• Pack Familiar Items: Bring along a few familiar items from home, such as toys or a favorite stuffed animal, to provide comfort and a sense of security.

Bonus Tips and FAQs

Dealing with Unexpected Delays and Cancellations

• Stay Informed: Keep track of flight updates through airline apps or airport information boards. Sign up for notifications to stay informed about any changes to your flight.
• Have a Backup Plan: Pack extra snacks, diapers, and supplies in case of delays. Bring enough to cover any unexpected overnight stays if necessary.
• Use Airport Amenities: Many airports have family rest areas or lounges where you can relax and take care of your baby’s needs during long waits.
• Stay Connected: Keep your phone and a portable charger handy. Being able to make necessary calls and access information is important in case of delays.

Common Concerns and Expert Advice on Flying with a Newborn

Is it Safe to Fly with a Newborn?

Yes, flying with a newborn is generally safe once they are a few weeks old. Always consult your pediatrician before traveling to ensure your baby is ready for air travel.

How Can I Manage My Baby’s Ear Pressure During Takeoff and Landing?

Feeding your baby during takeoff and landing can help with ear pressure. Pacifiers can also be helpful. The sucking motion helps equalize the pressure in their ears.

What Should I Pack in My Carry-On for My Baby?

Essential items include diapers, wipes, a changing pad, feeding supplies, extra clothes, a blanket, and a few favorite toys.

Can I Bring Formula or Breast Milk Through Airport Security?

Yes, you can bring formula, breast milk, and baby food through security in reasonable quantities. Declare these items at the checkpoint for additional screening if needed.

How Do I Handle a Crying Baby on the Plane?

Try soothing your baby with feeding, rocking, or walking up and down the aisle if allowed. Bringing familiar comfort items and toys can also help.

Are There Specific Seats That Are Better for Traveling with a Baby?

Bulkhead seats offer more space. Aisle seats provide easier access to the restroom, while window seats offer more privacy. Choose the option that best fits your needs.

Summary of Our Recommendations

1. Check your car seat and/or stroller at the ticket counter. Use a travel car seat bag to protect it from scratches and damage.
2. Pack individual baggies in your diaper bag for diaper changes. In each baggie, pack a diaper and a disposable changing pad.
3. Baby wear through the airport using a baby carrier that is easy to get on and off.
4. If you are bottle feeding, bring a mixture of pre-measured and pre-mixed formula.
5. Pack enough diapers and formula in your carry-on bag in the case of emergencies.
6. Try to fly direct.
7. Choose your seats on the plane wisely – aisle or bulkhead are our preference.

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We hope these tips make your flight with your newborn easier! Feel free to share your own experiences and tips in the comments below.